Almost 10 years ago, Shawn Wood married his high school sweetheart, Emily Ann, in the Comox Valley B次元官网网址 her dying wish.
The Comox Valley community rallied around the couple a decade ago as they got married on July 3, 2012 in Courtenay.
Emily was in January of 2012 and underwent various chemotherapy treatments, but near the end of June, doctors told her the treatments werenB次元官网网址檛 working and gave her three to 12 months to live.
Her dying wish was to marry Shawn, and because the couple was short on cash due to health-related costs, Shawn reached out to the community for help. The community responded with offers of goods, services and cash streaming in from businesses and individuals right away.
Now, he has created the , an organization that bears the name of his late wife, with the goal to provide accommodation for family members of terminal cancer patients over the age of 18, while the patient undergoes treatment, and to facilitate final wishes.
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In the podcast episode, Wood described what it was like spending time with Emily in hospital in Vancouver and the lack of support available. He spent time sleeping on the street, in Stanley Park and in his vehicle because he couldnB次元官网网址檛 afford a hotel while she received treatment. Eleven days after their wedding, Emily passed away and Wood didnB次元官网网址檛 know where to turn for help with the loss.
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As for some of the goals of the foundation and what it means to have EmilyB次元官网网址檚 legacy live on?
YouB次元官网网址檒l have to listen to the podcast to find out.
To listen to the full episode, download Off The Page on , and everywhere podcasts are heard, or visit .
New episodes of Off The Page drop every Wednesday.
To submit podcast topics or guest ideas, email offthepage@comoxvalleyrecord.com.