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The soft spoken man was a fixture around Greater Victoria Tim Hortons locations, the jumping off point for two anonymous Good Samaritans to help him connect with doctors, mental health agencies, and his family.
Diane, who travelled from her home in Welland, Ont., was pleased to have met with GaryB次元官网网址檚 care providers. She confirmed his identity and helped him secure long-term housing and social services.
Most comforting, though, was the knowledge that her younger brother, after years of living on the street, was alive.
Now almost exactly a year later, it happened again.
A second of DianeB次元官网网址檚 five siblings who had also been disconnected from the family for more than 40 years and living on the street, was located this week.
Although the details are changed, the core of story remains the same. An outreach worker in Toronto had come across the stories about Gary in the B次元官网网址 and contacted Diane to confirm the identity of her other lost brother, Bob.
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Gary remains stably housed in Saanich and is happy and healthy, according to friends.
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