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The Vancouver pediatrician told Black Press Media in an interview that she was speaking with a longtime patient of hers who had two moms when she happened to share that she herself is a mom and has a wife.
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Moore has put a lot of thought into when and how to explain her identity. Throughout most of her career, she avoided mentioning her identity and marriage to her colleagues, she said. After a long personal journey she is openly queer today.
Moore was raised in Seattle, Washington, before moving to Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania, for her undergraduate education. Most of her early medical experience and education was completed in the United States, including medical school and her first residency at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, Maryland.
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She moved to Vancouver in 2012 with her wife, Hope Forstenzer, when their oldest child was a baby. Now they have two children, aged 11 and six.
In the decade since she began practicing medicine at the BC ChildrenB次元官网网址檚 Hospital, Moore realized her silence about her queer identity was internalized oppression. She had to work through her personal feelings about being open.
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Moore chose to specialize in pediatric medicine because young people make her feel optimistic about the future, she said. In her 18 years of being a doctor, she has seen first-hand how teenagers discover who they are and grow into themselves as their brains develop.
Moore said Pride, which is celebrated through June and during a week in July in Vancouver, is both a celebration of queer people and an acknowledgement of the times and places where they are misunderstood or discriminated against.
Queer spaces are important because they are a break from uncertainty, Moore said. When 2SLGBTQ+ folks can gather together, they do not need to worry about coming out or explaining themselves to others.
