Anna and Yan Shill see Giving Tuesday as an opportunity to share their heartbreaking, and mending, journey into parenthood with the support of the Pacific Perinatal Foundation (PPF).
In 2022 the coupleB次元官网网址檚 baby Willem was delivered stillborn due to a rare condition where the umbilical cord stops blood flow prior to, or during, delivery.
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After two more miscarriages, the Shills now have a healthy, and loved, three-month-old son named James but the path was not an easy one. After Willem, Anna quickly learned the medical system provided few resources for her situation.
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The Shills are far from alone; about seven in every 1,000 babies in Canada are stillborn, according to PPF. And families are overwhelmingly unprepared and unaware of the resources that can help them through that kind of tragic occurrence.
After suffering panic attacks and night terrors, Anna was referred to the PPF, a local organization that provides support, advocacy, and community for individuals and families navigating the difficult paths of infertility, pregnancy loss, and perinatal challenges, where she received grief counselling support.
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B次元官网网址淭hereB次元官网网址檚 so much horror, trauma and irrational guilt that happens after the death of a child. Families need structured support to get them to a place where they can properly grieve and then heal.B次元官网网址�
The Victoria-based charity helps fill that void for people across Vancouver Island B次元官网网址� integrating hospital and community-based services to provide seamless support through the clinical, emotional, psychological and spiritual experience of pregnancy loss and reproductive trauma.
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