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Greater Victoria teen transforms BԪַpain into purposeBԪַ in late sisterBԪַs name

LexiBԪַs legacy lives on with A Million Acts of Love

Handing out sandwiches to those who are cold and hungry.

Baking 5,000 cookies for various causes.

Holding a door.

Each gesture BԪַ great or small BԪַ kicks off a ripple of kindness that spreads far beyond the source.

They wonBԪַt fill the void left by a sister taken too soon, but each serves as a small salve in the grieving process for Greater Victoria teen Felix Townsin.

BԪַItBԪַs not easy to keep going when grief feels so heavy, but every act of love we inspire feels like she is still right here with us,BԪַ Felix told Victoria BԪַ. BԪַLexi was pure love.

BԪַShe had the biggest heart and made everyone feel like the best version of themselves. She BԪַ just wanted to give and feel love. That was her gift to the world, and even though sheBԪַs no longer here, her love continues to inspire everything we do.BԪַ

The Royal Bay Secondary student was nine when he lost his little sister. After battling the rare genetic disorder Blau Syndrome, Lexi Townsin died at the age of six BԪַ just weeks before what would have been her seventh birthday, Dec. 16, 2019. That milestone, followed so closely by what was a joyful family favourite BԪַ Christmas BԪַ makes the month particularly challenging for the Victoria teen and his family.

BԪַThe holidays without her are excruciating,BԪַ Felix said. BԪַI was just 9, and we didnBԪַt know how to celebrate her birthday without her. Then we started talking about how Lexi didnBԪַt want presents; she wanted love. ThatBԪַs something we could still give.BԪַ

Last year he targeted 500 acts of love. This year, LexiBԪַs legacy lives on in FelixBԪַs campaign to document A Million Acts of Love by what would have been her 12th birthday on Dec. 16.

BԪַOne million is more than just a number BԪַ itBԪַs a movement,BԪַ Felix told Victoria BԪַ. BԪַIt shows the power of collective action, of people coming together to make the world a kinder place. We all have causes we care about, but when we work together, the impact is even greater. When we reach one million acts, it will mean that Lexi's love has touched a million lives. ItBԪַs proof that even though sheBԪַs gone, her spirit continues to make the world a better place.BԪַ

The years of BԪַspreading Lexi loveBԪַ are still filled with heavy grief and doses of inspiring acts of love.

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

An education assistant at John Stubbs school has painted and shared more than 1,000 rocks with uplifting messages. The Reynolds secondary robotics club has documented more than 400 acts of love by mentoring younger students.

On Dec. 14, the campaign partners with Lumara Grief Group in Vancouver to distribute socks, gloves and snacks to people in need on VancouverBԪַs Eastside.

BԪַWeBԪַll bring music to brighten the day and create moments of connection and love,BԪַ Felix said.

An act of love can be as simple as supporting the campaign tree in the Bay CentreBԪַs Festival of Trees, where funds raised benefit the BC ChildrenBԪַs Hospital.

BԪַThe impact has been life-changing BԪַ not just for me, but for so many others,BԪַ Felix said. BԪַI have transformed my pain into purpose and it has helped me survive this loss.BԪַ

A kid called Cal comes to mind. The boy struggled in school until his education assistant introduced him to A Million Acts of Love which turned into feeding his classmates through Cal and Amanda's Cookin' for Lexi.

BԪַThey ended up making 1,008 meals and treats for his school community. His education assistant said his confidence grew by 1,000 per cent, and his mom told me it transformed his life. BԪַThis campaign isnBԪַt just about the people receiving acts of love BԪַ itBԪַs about the incredible transformation for the givers too. Showing kindness builds community and resilience.BԪַ

The campaign is creatively designed to be as accessible as possible. To know theyBԪַve reached one million, they need people to sign up at and give their name and number. Sharing stories is optional but welcome online using #amillionactsoflove and @amillionactsoflove or by emailing .

Felix plans to push on with kindness into 2025, encouraging folks to join the #Love365 Challenge.

BԪַItBԪַs not about money or grand gestures BԪַ itBԪַs something people of all ages and backgrounds can do. As we head into a new year, we are challenging people to sign up for 365 Acts of Love BԪַ one small, intentional act of kindness every day for a year. Imagine the difference we could make if everyone did that.BԪַ

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About the Author: Christine van Reeuwyk

Longtime journalist with the Greater Victoria news team.
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