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Spending on fun isnBԪַt impossible BԪַ itBԪַs just hard, experts say

BԪַI think it really comes down to what youBԪַre going to get from what youBԪַre spendingBԪַ

When the cost of nearly everything is on the rise it can be difficult for young Canadians to imagine putting money aside for wants, rather than solely for needs.

However, spending on the BԪַfunBԪַ things in life isnBԪַt an impossible reach for Millennials and Gen Z, say experts BԪַ it might just require sacrifice and a new outlook.

BԪַWhat weBԪַre used to in the past is completely different from what weBԪַre seeing today,BԪַ said Barry Choi, a personal finance, travel and millennial and generation Z money expert at moneywehave.com.

BԪַBeing able to travel and eat out while affording life comfortably is becoming harder and harder, and combined with the FOMO a lot of people might get from what people are posting online, itBԪַs understandable that so many young people feel theyBԪַre falling behind in savings and fun.BԪַ

Succumbing to this kind of pressure BԪַ oftentimes from multiple sources, including family members and socially ingrained ideas of BԪַsuccessBԪַ BԪַ is something 34-year-old Montreal resident Jesse Kennedy said he has had to work through over the past several years.

While in his 20s, Kennedy worked various jobs in Prince Edward IslandBԪַs restaurant industry. Throughout those eight years, his paycheques and tips found their way out of his grasp almost as soon as they fell into it.

BԪַBecause it was a cash-based gig, I would walk into a clothing shop and drop 350 bucks on a couple of pairs of pants and some shirts, and wouldnBԪַt even think twice about it,BԪַ said Kennedy. BԪַI figured I could just make it all again the next weekend.BԪַ

However, as time went on, Kennedy realized he would need to make some serious changes if he wanted financial stability. He went back to university, worked multiple jobs at a time to pay off outstanding debts, and managed to buy a condo in Charlottetown BԪַ all while finding a way to still save and spend on fun.

BԪַThankfully, I was in a province that had a lower cost of living and gave me the opportunity to do all these things,BԪַ he said, BԪַbut for me, it was really a matter of realizing what was important to me in that time, managing my expectations, and making my money decisions based on that.BԪַ

Choi echoed this sentiment, stressing that the most important aspect of spending on fun is realizing what is realistic given oneBԪַs circumstances and managing oneBԪַs expectations accordingly. Spending on things like travel, entertainment and eating out is certainly possible, but exactly how much one spends on those things is almost entirely up to the individual.

BԪַIf you live in a big city, like Toronto or Vancouver, youBԪַre going to need to put more money towards living expenses,BԪַ he said. BԪַAnd if you want to buy a house earlier on, then youBԪַre also going to need to prioritize accordingly BԪַ because the simple reality is that every time you spend on something fun, it takes away from putting it towards something you need.BԪַ

According to Choi, that means understanding that one may not be able to go on a vacation once a year like their parents did, or eat out twice a week like their wealthier friends might be able to BԪַ but that doesnBԪַt mean the average young Canadian has to miss out entirely.

BԪַEven if youBԪַre only saving a small amount for the fun stuff, something like $50 a month can get you a really nice vacation after two or three years,BԪַ he added.

In fact, he emphasized the importance of attaining the kinds of experiences that are only possible while one is young BԪַ like travelling extensively without the stress of a full-time job, or going out on weekends without having to worry about child care.

BԪַFinding ways to get the experiences you want BԪַ is a great way to go about making sure you donBԪַt miss out on life just for a bigger RRSP,BԪַ said Choi.

Seeking out paid positions abroad or being smart with discounts on entertainment and restaurants are two things Choi recommended. However, he added that finding a way to make oneBԪַs hobbies cheaper is probably the best way to go.

BԪַIf you like eating out, thatBԪַs great, but maybe a more budget-friendly thing for a foodie would be learning how to cook,BԪַ he said. BԪַBut of course, it always comes back to whatBԪַs most important to you and what you will and wonBԪַt cheap out on.BԪַ

This is something Kennedy has taken to heart, especially in the current early years of his finance career. While he has definitely made sure to cut down on frivolous spending and chosen hobbies that cost little, he said he has still managed to find ways to splurge on whatBԪַs important to him BԪַ including a trip to Bali, where he was able to meet his partnerBԪַs extended family.

BԪַThe trip was pretty expensive, but I wouldnBԪַt change it, because we both had this amazing experience that we could probably only do in this time frame of our lives, and was equally affirming because it was the first time I let myself do something like that from a financial standpoint,BԪַ he said.

BԪַSo I think it really comes down to what youBԪַre going to get from what youBԪַre spending BԪַ tangibly, but also emotionally.BԪַ

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