By Baisakhi Roy, Local Journalism Initiative Reporter NEW CANADIAN MEDIA
Zohra Shahabuddin has fond memories of their first Christmas as an international student two years ago. The snow, the malls glittering with festive decor and the bustle of holiday shoppers felt very familiar.
B次元官网网址淎ll those Hollywood Christmas movies that we used to watch back home came to life B次元官网网址� it was truly magical,B次元官网网址� says the Vancouver-based marketing professional.
Although most newcomers find their first winter in Canada the toughest, Shahabuddin was immediately enveloped by the warmth of their local classmates who invited them to fun-filled parties with games and food and lots of snow play B次元官网网址� a novelty for the young student who missed their family back in Pakistan terribly. New friends supplied them with tips and tricks on how to navigate gloomy days when the sun went down sooner than usual.
B次元官网网址淎fter the first time, it became easier and I actually enjoy getting into the holiday spirit now,B次元官网网址� they say. B次元官网网址淚 am looking forward to attending various Christmas tree lighting events throughout the province and visiting the holiday markets, which is one of my favourite things to do.B次元官网网址�
Though accustomed to the cold, Shahbuddin is planning to spend a major chunk of the holidays this year with their brother in warmer environs, in Texas.
Toronto resident Rini Joshy too is looking forward to hunkering down with her family over the holidays with a favourite holiday movie and homemade treats.
B次元官网网址淲e intend to prioritize meaningful and intimate celebrations rather than focusing on extravagant spending,B次元官网网址� she says.
Having immigrated from India just last December, the holidays were pretty much a blur for the young family of three, which includes their six-year-old child. From navigating public transport to job hunting to enrolling their child in school just three days after arrival, the family had plenty of settling pains to get through.
B次元官网网址淭he events of last year unfolded quite fast, prompting us to deliberately take a more measured approach this year, aiming for more meaningful and slowed-down celebrations,B次元官网网址� Joshy says. B次元官网网址淚nstead of elaborate gifts, we have always preferred special family outings for birthdays, even back home.
B次元官网网址淲e plan to maintain a modest celebration but will still welcome family and friends to join us for our kidB次元官网网址檚 birthday. Similarly, for Christmas, we aim to emphasize the joy of spending quality time together. Our focus will be on creating a warm atmosphere, perhaps by engaging in festive DIY decorations or having an intimate potluck meal and singing carols with our close circle of friends. These thoughtful activities add a personal touch to the celebrations without the need for excessive spending.B次元官网网址�
With a couple of December birthdays also thrown into the mix, the Joshy family is opting for a scaled-back celebration this year, like many Canadians. A recent survey by BMO revealed that holiday spending is a major source of anxiety for almost 51 per cent of Canadians this year, caused by the rising cost of living. While 78 per cent of respondents said that they are planning to buy fewer gifts, on average, Canadians believe it will take three months to pay back their holiday bills.
Despite the financial strain, some families who traditionally do not celebrate Christmas are trying to make the holidays as memorable as they can, especially for their children. Iranian-born Aki Barabadi and her husband make sure that the tree is up and the presents are wrapped for their six-year-old daughter Maneli every year.
B次元官网网址淗oliday season here in Canada has been pretty much the same for the last three years weB次元官网网址檝e been around,B次元官网网址� says Barabadi, a Vancouver-based communications professional. B次元官网网址淪ince we have a child, we make it a point to set up a Christmas tree, even though back in Iran we never really celebrated Christmas our New Year, Norouz, in March is different.
B次元官网网址淪o we mostly didnB次元官网网址檛 have big plans, just regular work days. We did manage to squeeze in a night or two for some hangouts with friends B次元官网网址� one for Christmas and another for New YearB次元官网网址檚 Eve B次元官网网址� just to chill together. WeB次元官网网址檇 grab presents for our little one, but not for myself or my husband. We want our daughter to feel the same excitement as her friends do during the New Year in this country. But for us, itB次元官网网址檚 a different vibe.B次元官网网址�
The killing of Iranian activist Mahsa Amini in 2022 had a sobering effect on the family last year and this year too, itB次元官网网址檚 been an effort to keep the spirit alive. B次元官网网址淟ast year, the events in Iran following Mahsa AminiB次元官网网址檚 tragic death really had a negative impact on our lives and our usual celebrations,B次元官网网址� she says.
B次元官网网址淭hese kinds of crises are something weB次元官网网址檝e somewhat grown accustomed to, having lived in the Middle East and facing similar issues in the past. The ongoing crisis in Gaza has been on our minds.
B次元官网网址淭he soaring cost of living and grocery prices have indeed been challenging this year, but they havenB次元官网网址檛 drastically altered our celebrations. WeB次元官网网址檙e still navigating through and trying to make the most out of our festivities.B次元官网网址�
Creating new memories with family and loved ones, enjoying Canadian traditions and hoping for a peaceful and safe holiday season is a recurring theme for most newcomers.
B次元官网网址淚 did want to try skating, but my friend did and she broke both her arms, so I wonB次元官网网址檛 be doing that anytime soon,B次元官网网址� says Shahabuddin. B次元官网网址淭his will be my time to unwind, to hibernate and then emerge refreshed for the new year,B次元官网网址�
Says Barabadi: B次元官网网址淥ne thing IB次元官网网址檝e come to appreciate is how Canadians find ways to celebrate and be festive throughout the year. I find it intriguing and enjoyable how stores and decorations change for various occasions like Christmas, Canada Day, St. PatrickB次元官网网址檚 Day, and Thanksgiving.
B次元官网网址淚tB次元官网网址檚 a vibrant display of festivities that IB次元官网网址檝e grown to like and admire. For me, itB次元官网网址檚 more about Christmas morning when my kid unwraps the presents and I see the sheer joy on her face. That moment is the most precious and special time for us during the holidays.B次元官网网址�
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