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Carlson is far from alone.

Recent data from Canadian Women & Sport, a non-profit that partners with sport organizations, governments, and leaders to build better sport through gender equity, has found that only 1 in 10 girls feel well equipped to talk about their mental health and well-being.

Carlson arrived at Florida State University for her freshman year shortly after being passed over for the Olympic team. When she arrived at her new school she decided to open up to John Proctor, her new high diving coach, and it was then that her mental health began to improve.

The 25-year-old from Fort Frances, Ont., is now a star on TikTok and readying for another run at qualifying for the Olympics. She has also become an advocate for youth mental health and is partnering with the Coaching Association of Canada to raise awareness ahead of TuesdayB次元官网网址檚 World Mental Health Day.

Carlson recommends that any young person struggling with their mental health should start by becoming inquisitive about their own feelings. For her, that process started with journaling and building a greater understanding of what she needed.

B次元官网网址淯ntil you know it deep down in yourself that youB次元官网网址檙e struggling, then you wonB次元官网网址檛 want to get the help, right?B次元官网网址� said Carlson. B次元官网网址淚t needs to come from within first.

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Lorraine Lafreniere, the CEO of the Coaching Association of Canada, said that her organizationB次元官网网址檚 hope is that youth and trusted adults start to have more frank conversations with each other. The organization has also created a Mental Health and Sport Resource Hub for coaches and volunteers to better equip the adults involved in sports for when their athletes initiate those conversations or are visibly struggling.

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Carlson said that when she approached Proctor with her mental health concerns the best thing he did was just listen to her, not immediately give directions on how to fix things. Alex Hodgins, a mental performance consultant with the Vancouver Canucks and Vancouver Whitecaps, said that ProctorB次元官网网址檚 approach was ideal and that itB次元官网网址檚 the format that any youth coach should follow when trying to help one of their charges.

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B次元官网网址淭hen the most important thing is the coaches have to know where to direct that athlete. Unless they are a clinical psychologist or certified counsellor, theyB次元官网网址檙e probably not qualified to meet the needs of that athlete.B次元官网网址�

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