Even before he was seriously injured in the Humboldt Broncos bus crash as a 20-year-old, Kaleb Dahlgren had already faced his share of adversity.
He was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes at the age of four. As a young hockey player, he grieved the deaths of a teammate in a car accident and a strength coach to cancer. And, at 16, he nearly lost his dad to a serious illness.
BԪַIt really put things in perspective in my life,BԪַ Dahlgren said in a recent interview from his home in Saskatoon.
BԪַWe really donBԪַt know how long we have.BԪַ
Dahlgren, now 23, was one of 13 players injured on April 6, 2018, when his junior hockey teamBԪַs bus and a semi-trailer collided in rural Saskatchewan. Sixteen people BԪַ including 10 players BԪַ were killed.
He tells his story with the help of a ghost writer in the book BԪַCrossroads,BԪַ which was released Tuesday.
The crash nearly three years ago left Dahlgren with a traumatic brain injury, neck and nerve damage, a fractured back and multiple other injuries.
He still canBԪַt remember anything from the crash. He woke up in hospital four days later.
Despite his lack of memory, Dahlgren said he tried to be open and honest in the book about who he is as a person.
BԪַIt was super difficult to do it in the first place, but I also find thereBԪַs a lot of strength in being vulnerable,BԪַ he said. BԪַThe writing process was super hard for me.
BԪַOne of the harder parts was Chapter 16. That chapter was super, super emotional.BԪַ
In that chapter, Dahlgren writes about each of the 16 people who died.
BԪַWe were all a team. We were one,BԪַ he writes.
He recalled team broadcaster Tyler BieberBԪַs BԪַvoice of the BroncosBԪַ and Dayna Brons being there for everyone as the teamBԪַs athletic therapist. He wrote about how assistant coach Mark Cross was like a big brother and how team captain Logan Schatz had the biggest personality in the dressing room.
Although Dahlgren said it was difficult to write about his friends on the bus, it was also BԪַcathartic in my healing journey.BԪַ
He said it helped him to think about the people heBԪַs had in his life BԪַ particularly his parents, coaches and teammates BԪַ and how theyBԪַve helped him become the person he is today.
BԪַI was able to reflect on that throughout this process,BԪַ he said. BԪַIt was also cathartic to finally put some thoughts to paper and, in a way, set the Broncos stuff down and move forward in my life.BԪַ
Dahlgren said he will always carry the weight of the crash with him, just as he will always have a brain injury and visible scars.
HeBԪַs still not cleared to play contact hockey, but he had been practising and working out with his team at York University in Toronto before COVID-19 hit.
BԪַIBԪַm really lucky to even be able to be in that situation in the first place,BԪַ he said. His brain scans showed he had 10 spots where he had suffered a bleed, which made the doctors wonder why his physical injuries werenBԪַt a lot worse.
BԪַIBԪַm coined a miracle.BԪַ
He is finishing a commerce degree at York and has applied to a couple of other schools to continue his studies and become a chiropractor.
Dahlgren is also an ambassador for the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation and set up the DahlgrenBԪַs Diabeauties program to mentor diabetic children as a way to help others.
He said he has similar reasons for writing the book.
BԪַI didnBԪַt want to write a book unless it gave back to others.BԪַ
He would like it to generate awareness about hope and resilience, and is donating some of the proceeds to STARS, a non-profit that uses helicopters as air ambulances across the Prairies.
BԪַThey save lives every day and they saved lives on April 6th, too,BԪַ he said.
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