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When navy Lt. Rob C么t茅 arrives home from work at CFB Esquimalt each day, their 11-month-old totters back and forth between her doting parents, practising her newfound walking abilities.
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C么t茅 is soaking up every minute of family life he can before he leaves for the Mediterranean Sea off the Libyan coast aboard HMCS Vancouver, likely on Sunday (July 10). He will miss his only childB次元官网网址檚 first birthday in August, but says he feels fortunate to have witnessed Aline take her first steps two weeks ago.
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Despite the difficulty of leaving his family for six or seven months, he is looking forward to putting his training into action.
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ItB次元官网网址檚 not without its sacrifices. Crew members have 15 minutes of satellite telephone time every three days, plus Internet access, but there may be times when communications are restricted for security reasons.
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To help, families will be regularly briefed throughout the mission and the Esquimalt Military Family Resource Centre has several services for families of deployed personnel. Each ship, including Vancouver, has an email network for families and childrenB次元官网网址檚 deployment workshops, social gatherings for spouses or partners and free respite childcare are available.
Minko already has deployment handbooks at the ready to learn what she may experience before, during and after her husbandB次元官网网址檚 deployment.
B次元官网网址淚tB次元官网网址檚 grieving, that feeling of loss,B次元官网网址 Minko says, adding that knowing what to expect helps. B次元官网网址淣o matter how much you prepare you would still go through a cycle of emotions.B次元官网网址
The Esquimalt Military Family Resource Centre can be reached 24 hours a day at 250-363-2640, or by visiting www.esquimaltmfrc.com.
More mission details are expected to be revealed on Sunday, prior to the shipB次元官网网址檚 departure.
emccracken@vicnews.com
Mission details
B次元官网网址 Crew: 250 personnel, including Sea King helicopter air detachment
B次元官网网址 Boarding party: 20 member-team; boards, secures and searches ships for drugs and weapons.
B次元官网网址 Ship, crew preparation: Non-stop training for the past month.
B次元官网网址 Travel time: Two to three weeks.
B次元官网网址 Deployment: Six to seven months.
B次元官网网址&苍产蝉辫;Mission: Enforce UN-backed arms sea embargo and no-fly zone over Libya.