For PentictonBԪַs Nancy Browne, seeing her 86-year-old mother recover from COVID-19 was a sign that there is hope.
Despite countless battles with her health, Betty Jukes continues to defy the odds.
The Bobcaygeon, Ont. resident has been through more in the past several months than most have in their entire lives, beating COVID-19 while simultaneously battling cancer in both her neck and lungs, blindness, a fractured hip, and dementia.
BԪַSheBԪַs 86 years old,BԪַ said Browne. BԪַI guess you canBԪַt have eight kids without becoming real tough.BԪַ
Now that the dust has settled, Browne says itBԪַs important for people to know that COVID-19 is not an automatic death sentence.
BԪַI think the good news about this whole story is, first when you hear (of) somebody thatBԪַs over 80 years old and they get COVID, you automatically think itBԪַs a death sentence. ThatBԪַs what we thought, but I think itBԪַs important for people to know that itBԪַs not necessarily a death sentence,BԪַ explained Browne.
BԪַThere is good news.BԪַ
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Despite being more than 4,000 kilometres away, Browne has managed to connect with her mother through virtual calls, although she admitted itBԪַs hard to not be with her during these trying times.
From her living room in Penticton, Browne talks with her mother on her iPad daily. Although virtual calls are not the same as in-person conversations, Browne said they are always cherished.
BԪַWhether we have one more day with her, one more week, month, year or more we are blessed to have been given this extra time with her,BԪַ said Browne.
In November, Browne flew back to Ontario to visit her mother. At this point, Jukes was still living on her own. Although dementia was starting to creep in, Jukes was adamant about not living in a nursing home.
Together, Browne and her sister Kim Tully, who lives in Ontario, worked to accommodate their legally-blind mother, but things were taken out of their hands Dec. 1 when Jukes fractured her hip.
Nurses warned the sisters during the first two weeks of December that their mother would likely not recover from the surgery, or the anesthetics, due to her dementia.
BԪַThey might last two to six weeks, maybe three months,BԪַ said Browne.
At the same time, cat scans revealed cancer in JukesBԪַ lungs.
About three weeks after her hip surgery, Tully said enough was enough, and committed to staying with her every day.
BԪַShe (mom) was pretty much laying in bed going bathroom in the bed, and stuff like that. And she was used to walking all over the place,BԪַ explained Browne.
Tully was with her mother at the hospital from when she woke up in the morning, until she fell asleep again at night, leaving only to make meals for the two of them.
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Come the middle of February, Jukes was still in hospital. At this point, her dementia was becoming increasingly worse.
However, Tully was able to take Jukes back to Bobcaygoen where she cared for her in her apartment.
BԪַShe overcame the hip surgery, and defied those odds, she came out of it,BԪַ said Browne.
On March 23, Jukes fell in the apartment, and Tully couldnBԪַt get her up. Fearing she had broken her hip again, they called the ambulance.
BԪַAfter falling and stuff, she maybe was sweating and nauseated or whatever, and they put her on the COVID floor,BԪַ explained Browne.
When she arrived at the hospital, further cat scans revealed more cancer in JukesBԪַ neck.
An infection in her neck prompted antibiotics. According to the family, a week later, a test for COVID-19 came back positive.
BԪַSo then weBԪַre thinkingBԪַ this is it. Because we heard all the stories on the news about all these old people dying, and needing ventilators,BԪַ said Browne.
BԪַMy sister and I, oh my God, we spent so many hours bawling our eyes out, thinking weBԪַre never going to see her again.BԪַ
Jukes, at that point, was alone in the hospital due to visitor restrictions, with dementia worsened even more.
Because of this, the sisters were extremely worried their mother wouldnBԪַt regularly eat, or go to the bathroom.
BԪַSo once she got diagnosed with COVID, we thought sure, she was a goner. And then they put her on oxygen, and then weBԪַre really thinkingBԪַ sheBԪַs never going to come out of this,BԪַ said Browne.
Amazingly, Browne explained, after two weeks of being on oxygen, they managed to take Jukes off of it.
Her health at this point was rapidly declining. She lost the ability to feed herself, and nurses took over this responsibility.
But the 86-year-old was resilient; six weeks later, after multiple tests, JukesBԪַ tests for COVID-19 came back negative.
BԪַMy God, she overcame that,BԪַ said Browne. BԪַShe is so strong willed.BԪַ
On Sunday, May 17, Jukes came home to Bobcaygeon.
BԪַNo, you donBԪַt have to panic thinking your loved one is going to die in the hospital all by themselves, because they could get over it,BԪַ said Browne. BԪַThereBԪַs a lot of factors I guess, but I mean, sheBԪַs so strong-willed, there was no way she was dying.
BԪַWhen my momBԪַs time comes to go, I think she should be carried off in a golden chariotBԪַ sheBԪַs been through so much in her lifetime.BԪַ
Public Health Ontario has not yet confirmed this information. The Western BԪַ has reached out to the health authority for comment.
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