A labour Day backyard barbecue a year ago is one Alicen Chow will never forget.

Her daughter, Islay Mei Gordon, was playing with other children and fell from a tree. It didnB次元官网网址檛 appear to be a big deal at the time, but it would soon spiral the young family into a fight for life.

Soon after the fall, Islay began to limp and complain of a sore back. A trip to the doctor identified nothing out of the ordinary.

As the weeks passed, Islay started getting more peculiar aches and pains. She developed an odd rash on her shoulder and the pains in her knees and back were continuing to get worse, and when she woke up in the morning she was often so stiff she could hardly get out of bed.

Finally after weeks consulting with doctors and other health professionals, it was discovered Islay had leukemia.

B次元官网网址淸The diagnosis] was terrifying,B次元官网网址� Chow said. B次元官网网址淚 think we probably thought it was a death sentence at the time.B次元官网网址�

Islay was rushed to B.C. ChildrenB次元官网网址檚 Hospital in Vancouver to begin cancer treatment.

The first 24 hours were a whirlwind of activity as Islay underwent treatment. For the family, it opened an unexpected new world of learning medical terminology and understanding the cancer.

B次元官网网址淵ou quickly move from B次元官网网址業 canB次元官网网址檛 believe this is happeningB次元官网网址� to being inundated with information. You really donB次元官网网址檛 get a chance to catch your breath,B次元官网网址� Chow said.

Islay faced the first days with a lot of courage for a six year old as doctors and nurses poked and prodded her in the early stages of the cancer treatment.

Chow was surprised how well Islay held up.

B次元官网网址淭he moment we got [at the hospital] they made it really easy. They treat children with remarkable respect,B次元官网网址� Chow said. B次元官网网址淭hey made it as easy as they could and she did really well.B次元官网网址�

Anne Correlli, a pediatric oncology nurse at Victoria General Hospital, said family is so important when a child is dealing with cancer.

The family is considered a part of the health team.

B次元官网网址淲e try to build that trust with the families so they trust themselves and so when they are here and looking at numbers on the machine that we can reinforce with them itB次元官网网址檚 not just about the numbers but what they see in their child,B次元官网网址� Correlli said.

After a few weeks at B.C. ChildrenB次元官网网址檚 Hospital, Islay returned home and began taking day treatment at Victoria General Hospital.

Islay has been in remission since mid-January and returned to Grade 1 at Keating elementary school in September.

The hardship of dealing with cancer is not just the disease, but how it changes family life.

Chow said her family was lucky they didnB次元官网网址檛 have to spend more time in Vancouver, so they didnB次元官网网址檛 face a lot of financial hardships.

Still, there were incidents that came up where they had to ask groups like Make-a-Wish and the B.C. Childhood Cancer ParentsB次元官网网址� Association for help.

Chow, who is in the public service, now works two to three days a week at home. Her husband, Coll Gordon, has returned to his small law practice.

Chow said she doubts her family life will ever be the same.

B次元官网网址淭he biggest change is you develop this new normal, but it does quickly become part of your everyday routine.B次元官网网址� she said.

B次元官网网址淓verything changed. ThereB次元官网网址檚 no going back. The sense of invincibility is gone.B次元官网网址�

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Over the next three issues, the Victoria B次元官网网址 will look at the effect childhood cancer has on a family, from the devastating diagnosis to the financial and emotional hardships that follow. We also take a look at where families can get help, and the special relationships that form between health--care professionals and families.

Today

Alicen Chow and Coll Gordon  were taken aback when their six-year-old daughter Islay Mei Gordon was diagnosed with leukemia a year ago. A year of medical procedures and tests followed.

Oct. 24

Five-year-old Melia Christenson was a happy, rambunctious little girl. Her first symptoms of cancer was a tummy ache. The diagnosis later revealed WilmsB次元官网网址� Tumour.

Oct. 29

Anne Carrelli is a pediatric oncology nurse at Victoria General Hospital. SheB次元官网网址檚 part of a team of nurses, doctors and social workers who treat children with cancer. B次元官网网址淵ou canB次元官网网址檛 help but get invested in every family because kids are kids B次元官网网址� and they just want to get better,B次元官网网址� Carrelli says.