What a difference one year can make.
This statement is true for many of the stories shared at the Wounded Warrior Run BC kick-off event and media launch Thursday. One Greater Victoria couple, Luc and Sherry Beauvais, wouldnB次元官网网址檛 have thought they would be where they are today one year ago.
Luc was a police officer for 25 years, serving with police detachments in Ottawa, Victoria and Central Saanich.
Shortly before the Wounded Warrior Run last year Luc was diagnosed with PTSD. The BeauvaisB次元官网网址 close friend of 10 years, Chris Loran, was asked to run because the team was short a runner and Loran, an avid runner, agreed to run in LucB次元官网网址檚 name.
Sherry and Luc attended the closing ceremonies of the run in Victoria and when they heard two of last yearB次元官网网址檚 runners Allan Kobayashi and Channing Knull speak, something resonated with them regarding LucB次元官网网址檚 PTSD, Sherry said.
B次元官网网址淚t was the first time someone spoke who had experienced what we were going through and it made sense all of a sudden,B次元官网网址 she said.
Last February, the BeauvaisB次元官网网址 made a phone call to Couples Overcoming PTSD Everyday (COPE) and trauma resiliency program, two of the organizations Wounded Warriors Canada (WWC) provides assistance to, and put themselves on the waiting list.
When the Beauvais started the program they were COPE 17 and the 85th couple in the second year of the programB次元官网网址檚 existence.
Sherry said they had no expectations of the program and were put into a group with four other couples, all suffering from PTSD. Despite the uncertainty, they found strength in the bonds they made with their peers and found the psychologist and therapist sessions extremely helpful and important.
It was very strange to share pain with people and find strength in that, she said. They created strong connections with people that were going through the same thing by sharing personal stories and feelings and re-learning how to communicate together.
B次元官网网址淗ow to communicate again, how put the fear and anger aside and connect out of love again as a couple,B次元官网网址 Sherry said. B次元官网网址淗ow to talk and really listen, valuable thing you lose touch with when something like PTSD gets in the way.B次元官网网址
After Luc and Sherry gave a very moving speech at the kick-off, they stepped away from the podium and gave Loran a big hug as they passed him in the crowd.
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Loran will be running again this year and emphasizes that while traditionally PTSD is thought of for those who have served as military, first responders and their families, it can affect anybody.
When LoranB次元官网网址檚 son was 15 months old he was diagnosed with a bleeding disorder and had a bone marrow transplant. Loran runs for Luc, but he also likes to run for families who have experienced traumatic diseases.
B次元官网网址淚 also run for the families that have children who have died from cancer,B次元官网网址 he said. B次元官网网址淢y son is five and has had five or six friends pass away with cancer already.B次元官网网址
Loran looks forward to the run this month and connecting with people from communities they will be passing through on their week-long run down the Island, continuing the conversation and letting people know itB次元官网网址檚 okay to talk about mental health.
WWC provides assistance to three organizations directly on the Island. COPE, which is located in Langford, TRP, which is for first responders and is located in Sooke, and the PTSD service dog program in Parksville.
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