For MotherBԪַs Day, LangleyBԪַs Alisha Openshaw isnBԪַt expecting too much.
BԪַI donBԪַt have any plans for MotherBԪַs Day, maybe just get a well-deserved sleep-in and spend the day being spoiled by my boys,BԪַ she said.
Twins Weston and Bennett are four, not quite old enough to make mom breakfast by themselves, but old enough to deliver it.
BԪַIf my husband helps, they would likely be able to bring it up to me,BԪַ Alisha said.
It would be a rare day of rest for Alisha, who estimates she averages at least three days a week on the road, driving her sons in from their Langley home for cancer treatments at B.C. ChildrenBԪַs Hospital (BCCH) in Vancouver, a route so familiar and automatic that she can arrive without remembering any of the turns along the way.
Her boys were both diagnosed with the same type of cancer, Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia, within a few months of each other, in 2022.
Since then, BԪַitBԪַs a whole new world,BԪַ she commented, one of doctors, nurses and specialists, of chemo and other medical procedures, and sometimes long stays in the hospital,
Weston, who was the first brother to be diagnosed, has had a BԪַreally rough go,BԪַ that included a six week stay in hospital that ended just in time for Christmas, Alisha advised.
Currently, both Weston and Bennett are doing well, BԪַother than them both being bald now,BԪַ but their hair is growing back, and the twins are becoming their usual rambunctious selves.
BԪַTheyBԪַre both wild boys,BԪַ she laughed.
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A video of their hospital visits, provided to the Langley Advance Times, showed the brothers happily rampaging through the hallways at BCCH with a toy wagon, showing they know where the switch is to open automatic doors, and the route to the outdoor play area.
BԪַTheyBԪַre very familiar with the hospitals and the treatments,BԪַ Alisha commented.
BԪַTheyBԪַll be playing house, and [they will pretend] BԪַyou have to take your medicineBԪַ.BԪַ
The Mickey Mouse-loving twins enjoy playing with their older brother and cuddling with their BԪַNanaBԪַ BԪַ grandma and spending time with their BԪַAuntie,BԪַ AlishaBԪַs sister.
Alisha has also found support from what she described as a community of moms in similar situations.
BԪַWe call ourselves the BԪַmomcologists,BԪַ Alisha said.
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Alisha is telling her familyBԪַs story to support BCCH, which is the only hospital in the province devoted exclusively to the care of children and youth.
Donor funding, through the B.C. ChildrenBԪַs Hospital Foundation, goes to providing medical equipment, help fund leading pediatric research and clinical care, and enhancing facilities, programs and initiatives.
The current campaign theme is BԪַjoin the mightyBԪַ BԪַ donate to help mighty mothers and mighty children.
BԪַIt has been a difficult journey at times, and I havenBԪַt always felt very strong, but I have had to remain mighty,BԪַ Alisha commented.
BԪַStaying mighty for my boys is knowing exactly when they need a big hug, or when to crack a silly smile. Mighty is telling myself itBԪַs okay to walk away and have a long, hard cry. Mighty is knowing when to ask for help. As a mom, this is how I need to show up BԪַ staying mighty when things get tough.BԪַ
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