Stephane Marcotte served in the Canadian Navy for 28 years, 18 of which took place deep below the surface of the ocean in a submarine. For his remaining 10 years, he was above the water on ships and teaching.
In 2017, he was finally able to retire from his life of service, only to carry with him post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) from various missions and the Gulf War in 2002.
For Marcotte, Remembrance Day is an opportunity to honour the lives of service people lost and express gratefulness for those that were not, including his own.
His life he said, he owes to the programs and resources provided by Wounded Warriors Canada.
As a volunteer and beneficiary of the organization, he is able to speak to the power of their programs.
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He began working with Wounded Warriors because he said other things, such as psychology, were just not working.
The equine couples program helped him and his wife Susan learn how to communicate with each other to truly understand the other.
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A combination of joint and solo programs specialized for spouses helped build their communication skills, giving them the ability to truly understand each other even through the challenges of PTSD.
For the last nine years, the Marcottes have worked with the organization helping with the annual Wounded Warrior Run B.C., which goes the length of Vancouver Island to raise money for the same programs that saved StephaneB次元官网网址檚 life and the MarcottesB次元官网网址 marriage.
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Not only did Wounded Warriors give Marcotte purpose and drive B次元官网网址 the organization helped him get his service dog, Sarge, during one of their events at Bear Mountain.
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From helping him overcome anxiety to alerting him when his blood sugar is low, Sarge has impacted MarcotteB次元官网网址檚 life in profound ways.
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The benefits of Wounded Warriors programs and events that Marcotte has attended far surpass just happiness and security. TheyB次元官网网址檝e ensured that he is able to be around for another Remembrance Day, to celebrate his continued fight in the face of PTSD and to remember those heB次元官网网址檚 lost B次元官网网址 both at home and abroad.
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