Rhonda Hilton knows far too well what cancer can do.
The 64-year-old retiree has had two successful surgeries for thyroid cancer. Less than six years ago, stomach cancer claimed her husband of 40 years, permanently altering her life.
Looking for a fresh start, Hilton left Ontario for Victoria, which she had come to love while visiting her two adult daughters over the years.
As Hilton familiarized herself with her home, she noticed the dragon boats on the Gorge waterway.
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Emails with Karen Wilson, a longtime paddler with the Fairway Gorge Paddling Club and the Island Breast Strokers, who received two diagnoses of breast cancer during the last two decades, followed.
Hilton eventually became one of the first crew members of StayinB次元官网网址 Alive, a mixed-gender team for cancer survivors and supporters that Wilson and her husband Keith had formed to give cancer survivors and their supporters a sanctuary where they can draw strength in a supportive, knowledgeable environment.
While all-female teams of breast cancer survivors are common, StayinB次元官网网址 Alive would be the first of its kind in the region.
Hilton hasnB次元官网网址檛 looked back since joining. She loves being on the water, and marvels at the scenery. The entire experience has since given her a new confidence, as she moves forward with her life.
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Hilton will get a chance to show this when she and her crew mates race in the 2018 Dragon Boat Festival Aug. 10-12, an accomplishment by any measure considering that the team did not have its first on-water session until June 2.
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The 22-member crew covers a wide range of ages and athletic abilities.
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The other one is Jo-Ann Zador, who has been a competitive dragon boat racer for the last five years, along with her husband. In late May though, Zador heard that her adult daughter had received a diagnosis of breast cancer.
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They agreed and the relationship between Zador and the relatively inexperienced crew has been nothing less than a win-win.
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Being part of this team has taught Zador that it is OK to hurt and cry. B次元官网网址淚 am humbled by the kindness of people who have suffered, the kindness of people who have conquered, the kindness of people who give you hug when they see the tears, and and there is light at the end of tunnel,B次元官网网址 she said. B次元官网网址淚 have experienced true compassion and caring words of comfort.B次元官网网址
Working with inexperienced crew members, who are either recovering from cancer themselves or are supporting others, requires care and consideration, said Wilson.
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But he has also seen the strength that crew members have drawn from each other during this year, which will hopefully be the first of many more to come.
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He doesnB次元官网网址檛 need to say that, as they have been through far worse.