Dr. Carl Ivey expects a little blowback from his parenting program planned for Monday evening adjacent to the Royal BC Museum.
He offers Stop Punishing and Start Disciplining: How to raise emotionally healthy and spiritually empowered children and teens without punishment or threat of punishment, based on a system heB次元官网网址檚 advocated for years.
B次元官网网址淲henever you present a new idea you meet resistance,B次元官网网址 he says. B次元官网网址淏次元官网网址淚 welcome it because the only problem with my parenting approach is it works.B次元官网网址
At least thatB次元官网网址檚 what parents have told him over his years as a pediatrician.
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His premise is children of all ages need and want discipline, but healthy discipline has nothing to do with punishment or threat of punishment unhealthy discipling involved hitting, humiliation or fear.
B次元官网网址淚B次元官网网址檓 going to redefine what the word discipline means, it has nothing to do with punishment,B次元官网网址 Ivey said.
His approach is that effective, non-punitive parenting is based on principles of love and limits.
The talk is about 30 minutes followed by questions and discussion
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Ivey presents Stop Punishing and Start Disciplining is Monday, May 7 at 7 p.m. at the Royal BC Museum, on the east side by Thunderbird Park, 675 Belleville St.
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